IAT 03 – Characteristics Part 1 Video Download is the 3rd video from the AASAT Intimacy Anorexia Training Course. It presents the characteristics of intimacy anorexia with examples. Dr. Weiss talks about 5 of the 10 IA characteristics and gives examples. These 5 intimacy anorexia characteristics are: busy, blame, withholding love, withholding praise, and withholding sex. This is a downloadable video.